You.

 

For who you are. 

I know you can do it. 

 He knows you can make it.

If you do not believe in yourself, who else?

Even he believe in you deeply, you need to figure it out.

Please take it.

Make it.

Keep it up!

and never make things harder...

We call it, Plan.

I found this while scrolling on newsfeed. Ahah... mine is not around the corner. Actually this is a good thing to be discussed. Well, we need to plan early. ^_^

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resepsi nanti saya nak buat simple2 aje. saya nak masak sama-sama dengan siapa yang sudi nak tolong masak untuk kenduri resepsi saya nanti, biar kita sama-sama berpulas hempas, baru-lah enjoyable. kadang di hari resepsi tak sempat pun jumpa/cakap lama2, so kalau tak dapat datang resepsi pun, datang tolong beli barang2 nak masak pun ok, teman beli door gifts etc, takpun datang masak hari sebelum, stay up sama2 malam tu, kita sembang panjang2, kenalkan kawan2 dekat mama bapak dan isteri nanti.

dan erm, kenduri nanti nak buat time breakfast. tak panas sangat. tak payah nak terkejar2 nak solat zohor bila dah dress up (or suit up) bagai kan. nanti boleh guest pi kenduri lain pulak lepas datang resepsi saya dan isteri(nanti). lauk? nak masak Nasik Lemak Camam (NLC), and utk yg lambat sikit (yg datang dekat2 tengahari) nak buat nasik pilau kambing (NPK). yang penting capek kena ada nak tolong masak skali.

and nanti tak nak ada makan beradab, sangat tak beradab tetamu datang kita dok rumah macam raja, kadang yg datang tak sempat tengok pun siapa yang kawin, patutnya jemput tetamu datang, kita tuan rumah kena layan tetamu. and instead of main lagu je sepanjang masa, nak selit2 bait2 puisi, ucapan dari mak ayah, abang kakak sepupu sepapat, biar diorang bacakan live apa yg diorang tulis, kalau ada lah orang nak tuliskan kan. perasan lebih. heuhuehue.

so, target:
majlis biar simple, buat time pagi 8am-Noon, lauk NLC & NPK, masak sendiri gotong royong dgn family, kawan2 dan jiran, pengantin akan layan tetamu lebih.

sekarang:
mantapkan persediaan, cari duit, cari sampai jumpa jodoh

oh lupa. tak tahu jadi ke tak ni, sebab tak bincang dgn bapak mama and isteri lagi. eh bakal isteri, eh, calon bakal isteri pun tak ada lagi. eh? eh?

disclaimer: doakan. serius takde apa2 lagi soon. saje nak share my dream wedding reception je, and tak bererti reception2 korang dan orang lain tak bagus.

Something that always be forgotten...

#9 – Emotional decisions are rarely good decisions.

Decisions driven by heavy emotion are typically misguided reactions rather than educated judgments.  These reactions are the byproduct of minimal amounts of conscious thought and primarily based on momentary ‘feelings’ instead of mindful awareness.
The best advice here is simple:  Don’t let your emotions trump your intelligence.  Slow down and think things through before you make any life-changing decisions.

Some things you need to know...

I know you’re reading this.  

And I want you to know I’m writing this for you.  Others will be confused.  They will think I’m writing this for them.  But I’m not.

This one’s for you.

I want you to know that life is not easy.  Every day is an unpredictable challenge.  Some days it can be difficult to simply get out of bed in the morning.  To face reality and put on that smile.  But I want you to know, your smile has kept me going on more days than I can count.  Never forget that, even through the toughest times, you are incredible.  You really are.

So smile more often.  You have so many reasons to.  Time and again, my reason is you.

You won’t always be perfect.  Neither will I.  Because nobody is perfect, and nobody deserves to be perfect.  Nobody has it easy, everybody has issues.  You will never know exactly what I’m going through.  And I will never know exactly what you’re going through.  We are all fighting our own unique war.

But we are fighting through it simultaneously, together.

Whenever somebody discredits you, and tells you that you can’t do something, keep in mind that they are speaking from within the boundaries of their own limitations.  Ignore them.  Don’t give in.  In this crazy world that’s trying to make you like everyone else, find the courage to keep being your awesome self.  And when they laugh at you for being different, laugh back at them for being the same.

Remember, our courage doesn’t always roar aloud.  Sometimes it’s the quiet voice at the end of the day whispering, “I will try again tomorrow.”  So stand strong.  Things turn out best for people who make the best out of the way things turn out.

And I am committed to making the best of it along with you.

Stuck

Oh my ....! I get stuck on this. It turns my neuron energetic.

Check it out!

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True Friends

Difaktab oleh Isaac Ismael

Assalamulaikum warohmatullah.

   All of us have friends. But not all of us have true friends. True friends are rare. They are special breed. They are hard to come by. True friends are exclusive species created by God. True friends aren't those things money can buy. They are so rare so the number of them usually don't exceed the number of fingers on a single hand. In every 1000 friends we have, there might be only one or two. Or none at all.

   Friends are presents. But true friends are God's gifts. They are rewarded to us. True friends are always there for you when you need them. They are even with you at times of when you don't need them. Because they know they are needed. Sometimes, true friends already knew what you didn't even tell them. Because they knew you so well. However, distance may kept them apart. But true friendship never separate them apart. True friends are friends who always listen and understand. They never punish, they never judge. True friends lend their hands before you even ask for help. True friends put themselves second before you.

(credits goes to favim.com)

  You could have few true friends. Those friends could also claim you are one of them. True friends stay and never leave when their friends are in trouble. The most important principle is, true friends never offer a hand while holding a knife on the other hand. Betrayers aren't even called as friends.

  Now ask yourself ? Are you a true friend ?

*dush*

Sunday. Definately we call it as weekend. But not for Kelantan, Terengganu also Kedah.

Blogwalking, an interesting activity or so-called as 'warm-up'. :D

I came across this blog, anak pak man, and I found this (simply click on the title and you will be sent there!). Phew... This is what I want to say all this while...

Let me share his post. Check it out!

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Fiction Character 1.1

"I can't change, even if I tried, even if I wanted to," Same Love by Macklemore and Ryan Lewis feat. Mary Lambert.


He wanders. He wonders. About many a thing at a time. So many things, in fact, that he loses track and in effect gets distracted rather easily. Too easily. He could be in the middle of contemplating Khalil Gibran, for all he could, and a passing motorbike would make all those thoughts join the carbon monoxide to come up in smoke.

His focus is weak. He can’t pay attention to anything for more than ten minutes. He opens the Pages document on his computer to write something up and is scrolling through his Facebook home in less than two minutes. It not that he wants to lose focus. He just does.

At least that’s what he says to himself. Comforting is the thought of not having control of yourself. You are no longer responsible for your actions when you aren’t in control of yourself, and that’s the way he likes it. Not taking responsibility for himself. For his own development. For the feelings of the people around him. For his relationship with God. 

It’s not under his control. If it was, he would be the best human being ever. He would be able to do so many things. He would read a lot more. He would learn how to play every sport that he can. He would pray on time all the time. He would be helpful at every opportunity he can. He would work on his assignments as soon as he receives them and wouldn’t stop until they’re finished. He would proofread his work, thrice, making improvements every time. He would get high distinctions. He would get a first-class degree.

But it’s not under his control. He’s tired all the time, so he sleeps way too much and works too little. He’s too slow a reader, so he puts his books aside. He’s way too busy, so he postpones any actual work until the very last minute. He’s not fit enough, so he doesn’t go down to the field to play any kind of sport. He was always a one-sport-guy anyway. He oversleeps, so he misses prayers. He doesn’t like proofreading his own work, so his first drafts are his final drafts. His EQ is low, so he hurts the people who love him.

Ah, not being in control is the best thing that could ever happen to a person. After all, how can God judge a person for how He has made His creation? These flaws aren’t mine, he says to himself. They were given to me. I did not choose to be this way. If I was born hardworking, then things would be different. But I wasn’t. So I’m not. 

And that’s perfectly fine.

thou

I can’t pretend to be a lion able to conquer the enemy,
To master myself would be enough.
I am only the dust on my Lover’s path
and from dust I will rise and turn into a flower. 

[Rumi]